nyc · launching soon

MILK: The OSfor Gay Life

One live map of who’s around. Three ways in. Privacy in every layer, so you decide who sees you, and when you disappear.

Founding list is open. One email when doors open. Nothing else.
Five shirtless men lying close together on a wet, glittering floor in front of a wall of glowing MILK wordmarks

Three ways in
at launch.

Switch modes and the map changes with you. Same app, same network, a different set of rules for who can see what.

Shirtless men pressed close around one man in a dark brick alley, one kissing his ear 0.2 mi
hookups

Who’s around, right now.

A live map of every guy near you, updating in real time. Set your status, drop a pin in the next city before you land, see who just checked in down the street. Intentions up front, filters that work, zero bots.

  • Mutual RevealYour spot shows only when you both want it
  • BeaconsHosting or ready? Light up from blocks away
  • StatusLooking, Hosting, Traveling, Invisible
  • Travel modeLand your pin before you land
  • Venue HalosSee which bars are busy right now
  • Groups & EventsStart or join one, public or private
  • ChatroomsTalk to the whole room at once
A man in a leather jacket, face in shadow, standing in street steam on a wet, purple-lit city street at night 30:00
anonymous · stealthsquare

No name. No face. No trace.

Step out of your profile and become a silhouette. Timed sessions, distance bands instead of pins, a built-in VPN shield. When you’re done, one tap burns it all. Verified gone.

  • Burn ProfileProfile, chats, photos wiped. Verified gone
  • VPN ShieldBuilt-in, one tap on entry
  • Timed sessions30, 60 or 90 min. One free, daily
  • Distance bandsHow close, never where
  • Silhouette onlyNo name, no face on your tile
  • Groups & EventsPublic or private. Join as a silhouette, reveal yourself in messages if you choose
  • ChatroomsPrivate chatroom access with other Stealth users
A man browsing the MILK Resources directory on a tablet: doctors, a PrEP specialist, a psychiatrist, a nutritionist, an addiction counselor and coaches, many shown online open now
resources

Care, mapped near you.

Emergency help to everyday assistance, on the same map. Crisis support at any hour, a doctor or PrEP provider who gets you, what your insurance covers, help with housing and legal. Every provider queer-friendly.

  • Health & PrEPTesting and PrEP near you, open now
  • Crisis support24/7, one tap, real people
  • Mental healthTherapists and counselors who get you
  • InsuranceSee what your plan covers, or apply for coverage
  • AssistanceHousing, food pantries, legal aid, benefits
new · the hookups map

See where
the night is going.

Other apps show where everyone is. MILK shows who’s ready, who’s on the way and where the crowd is heading, and your exact spot only shows when you both want it.

HOSTING READY · ~3 BLOCKS THE LOFT 42 HERE NOW → THE LOFT · 20 MIN CORNER · REVEALED LIVE · CHELSEA
  • HEADING TOSay where you’re going and a trail points to the bar or club. Public venues only, and it never shows where you started.
  • TONIGHT’S PEAKSlide ahead to see when each area usually gets busy. Built from anonymous crowd counts, never from any one person.
  • CARD STRIPSwipe profile cards along the bottom and the map follows, nearest first.
  • LOOK AROUNDHold up your phone and bubbles point the way: a direction and a distance, never a building or a floor.
your exact spot never leaves our serversinvisible means invisible

Real men.
Verified first.

What the grid looks like when every face on it belongs to a real guy who cleared verification first.

Marcus taking a bedroom mirror selfie in a white t-shirt
Marcus310.1 mi
Diego shirtless and laughing on a crowded beach
Diego270.2 mi
Kenji taking an arm’s-length selfie on a Manhattan sidewalk
Kenji290.3 mi
Theo with a drink at a rooftop bar at sunset
Theo350.4 mi
Amir taking a shirtless locker room mirror selfie
Amir260.5 mi
Jordan smiling with his phone on the couch at night
Jordan430.7 mi
privacy

Privacy is the operating system.

Not a setting buried three menus deep. Every layer, from sign-up to chat, starts private.

APP DISGUISEChange the home-screen icon and name to something boring.
ENCRYPTED MESSAGINGEncrypted in transit and on our servers. Never sold, never used for ads.
SELF-DESTRUCTING MEDIAPhotos that don’t stick around after they’re seen.
PER-PHOTO PRIVACYPublic, private or locked. You decide, photo by photo.
JAX, MILK's AI assistant: a faceless figure in a glossy helmet with a red visor, inside a white ring
JAX · YOUR AI ASSISTANT Ask him anything, from “is this guy a scam?” to “where can I get tested tonight?” Every chat deletes after 24 hours. Never used to profile you or sell to you.

Be first
in NYC.

Founding seats are limited. The list gets in before anyone else, and founders keep their price for life.